SOCIAL SOAP BOX

Posted by Landria Seals on 23 June 2009 | 0 Comments

The school year is coming to a pleasant close and we have been able to collaborate with many districts and parents for the new IEP!  Many questions surrounding social communication are formed:

“What should we work on?”

“Can we really measure social goals?”

“Isn’t social communication subjective?”

These questions return periodically, but not as frequently as the goal  for turn-taking  and the elusive phenom of “Your Turn … My Turn”.

Let’s put a few things to rest!

1.       What should we work on?  There are social language development norms that should always be used for treating and creating goals for social communication.  Evidenced Based Research can be found in many fields that include speech pathology, sociology, psychology.  The target for social goals should always include social thinking or social cognition, theory of mind, reasoning, flexibility, experience sharing, referencing, and verbal communication.  Please not the emphasis on verbal communication as being last!  Because it is the surface skill, we tend to work on that first…it should be a shared priority with those things that are hidden but necessary in social interaction.  What are those hidden skills?  Social thinking and engagement to name a few.

2.       Can we measure  social goals?  Absolutely.  Just need to know what is being measured. The goal has to be written in a measurable way or as discretely as possible. 

 3.   3. Is social communication subjective?  No social language development has established norms for typical development. Therefore it is not subjective. However, social skills are subjective.  Social skills are what parents and society teach anyway.  That includes polite greetings, “speak when you’re spoken to”, etc.  Social skills depend up on the culture of age, color, geographic space, economics.  Social communication is the engagement, flexibility, declarative language, perspective taking, and much more!  Social communication work takes the people who verbally label items to demonstrating the surface skill of verbal interaction.  The difference between social skills and social communication is that social skills training builds a house with a very weak foundation…destined to fall!

4.       4. Your Turn…My Turn.  Can we teach it? Be careful about how Your Turn My Turn is being taught to your child.  Picture several children playing.  When do they really verbalize “Your Turn”.  Is it at every turn?  Or is it when the person is not engaged, does not move fast enough.  Your Turn/My Turn is really a nonverbal social thinking act rather than something to tell a person.  We figure out it is our turn when we play with our friends. We are only informed that it is our turn when we are not participating at the level expected by the other players.  When they tell us its our turn, what kind of vocal tone is used?  Is it a patient tone?  Does it include a long statement “Jennifer, it’s your turn”.  Nooooo!  Typically we say things like “Hey take your turn”, “Go,”, Hurry Up”.  Most times, we use an impatient tone or a humorous tone.  So what should we then teach?  Engagement, Rhythm, and Social Thinking. 

 Until Next Time….Landria

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©2009 Landria Seals- Social Soap Box


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